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Little Things- Finding a Positive Perspective towards Life

You have two choices- become a cynic or see the brighter side of everything. The first comes with its own share of burdens in your life. If you are ready to accept and embrace it genuinely, then we are with you. But why is it always important to take the hard road? You can look for happinessa lovely futurepure Loveand a better world in a fine little ways. 


Be observant

 

To find positivity in every aspect of life, this is the number one rule. You have got to be the person who observes more. Look out for changing patterns, colors, clouds, leaves, someone’s smile, behavior. Feel the taste of the food, a person’s touch, smell that smoked pizza. This helps in being in the present too- the Power of Now.

 

For example- If you see a beggar on the road smiling away, think about how it might have happened and how these things make for a lovely life in a bigger picture. An elderly may give you blessings because you just helped him/her get down from the bus only because you observed and understood them. Observation works tremendously, even if it is a tiny ant walking on the table- it is a living being, just like you. And if you appreciate that life, it is a beautiful positive outlook you imbibe. 

 

Practice vulnerability

 

Do you know the power of being vulnerable? It is a process of being emotionally independent. These changes make way for a new beginning. The powers to become open and discuss topics you rarely do, makes you appreciate this gift of lifeExpressionism is not given much heed because you either think no one will understand or they may become offensive. 

Being vulnerable is not an act of being weak. It is an act of Self-help in little ways. But being vulnerable also doesn’t mean pitying yourself, playing blame games. It’s about open-mindedness regarding small and big things in life. 

 

Two sides of the story

 

This comes with the ability to rationalize every situation. Positivity will grow on you once you stop judging someone or something. Emotional Intelligence is when you try to see all sides of the story and not just one. This helps you appreciate life. It is a step towards the common good, spiritual growth, among others toexplore. If you judge yourself and others in a certain way, think again. 

 

Choose to see the good side (this doesn’t mean ignore the dark ones). Read real-life books that will help you appreciate life no matter how gruesome it may seem.

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